"Hang the":-) DDJ wrote:
Jenny Kaye wrote:
My wife is not the same as "my woman".
Which might be because she's not his wife -- for any of a number of
reasons
(prohibitions against marriage in their grade; one of them in a situation where s/he's not free to marry because of family obligations or pre-existing marriage or financial inability to support a spouse).
It "might be" that she is a rotting corpse and it's illegal to marry rotting corpses in the Federation. It "might be" that she is an android or really a man in disguise. Or an inflatable sea bird, or a kangaroo, or a plate of Spam. She "might be" a handgliding penguin from the planet Calufrax, who didn't have an entry visa. She "might be" a large stripy snake called Hector, or a shop window dummy, or she "might be" Sally Manton, or me, or she "might be" a cut out picture from a magazine.
When
I hear "my woman," it connotes a degree of intimacy/closeness beyond "my girlfriend"
Does it now? So Jarvik, then, was really a kind and sensitive guy who just wanted to be intimate and close with Servalan, and all his ordering her about was just him being loving.
-- the kind of closeness he'd have with a woman he wanted to
marry but hadn't;
However you want to paint it, though, that possessive is still there. Why is she "his" woman? What makes her "his" and not, oh, say, her own?
at the same time, the term doesn't foreground the
physical relationship the way "my lover" would.
Or "my victim..."
And not elaborating on the
details seems in keeping both with Gan and the scene:
That's true!
it's not a
confess-all-the-details situation, but a brief explanation.
That's true!
But one of Lennon's greatest love songs is titled "Woman" and conveys the opposite attitude :
"Woman I know you understand The little child inside the man, Please remember my life is in your hands, And woman hold me close to your heart, However, distant don't keep us apart,"
Yes, but he doesn't use the possessive, does he?
"My Woman I know you understand. The little child inside the man, Please remember your life is in my hands. And my woman, hold me close to your heart, However, distant don't keep us apart, Do that, and I will have to tear you apart."
Jenny
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