Take two as I sent this prvately instead of to the Lyst
Sally wrote...
>OTOH, Vila would be useles at setting limits or giving much guidance -
>he'd be fun to have around (would make a great granddad) but is too
>self-centred and easily swayed to make a fist of the drudgery of
>raising and training a child.
They'd definately need a good firm mam.
Leia