Sally, I'm too busy these days to even read the Lyst, let alone send my
comments, but I feel obliged to respond to your post. I've joined only three
or four months ago, so my impressions are still vague. Still, FWIW, I think
you are one of the kindest, friendliest persons on this list. I enjoy
reading your posts and find them witty and charming and I also think you are
a very talented writer. You've a strong personality and you probably don't
need this 'mental hug', but I send it to you anyway.
As for the desire to write stories in which someone gets hurt (and I'm not
immune to this, either) - I guess the shrinks would label it as a kind of
regression, but I really don't think it should upset anyone. I'd rather say
it's a case of our own neurosis curing us, a way to let off some steam. If
you (I mean 'anyone') can find a way of presenting your private chimeras to
the world without the world flinching, then good for you. Those who preach
strict morality are much more likely to butcher someone in real life than
those who try to come to terms with their irrational self. It is an
important aspect of creative writing which should be recognized. Writing is
self-healing, among other things. This goes for me too. I will not glorify
such stories, but I will not condemn them, either.
(BTW,in the long history of Shakespeare criticism, I can't recall a single
critic who accused Shakespeare for making Hamlet suffer so much. For
centuries the audience has experienced aesthetic pleasure in his suffering,
and some would probably call it beautiful.)
N.