Leah wrote:
Falling in love, either with an actor or a person in your life, is a biological condition triggered by chemicals. As coldly scientific as that sounds, the condition of leverance has been proven in the lab. It can have many different degrees, but it follows a prescribed biological pattern,
and
has perpetuated in the genes of our species (and probably in other
species)
as a means of continuing the species. One can fall into the emotional condition known now as 'leverance' under a host of circumstances,
including
weekly exposure to an attractive television character we have come to feel close to and care about. This displacement is a modern phenomenon, but chemically, it's every bit as real as meeting someone you come to regard
as
'the one' (someone you wish to mate with).
So the reason you've been a fan for 20+ years is because you, Leah, are in love with Avon and want to perpetuate the species with him?
We are rational, thinking
creatures--but only recently. We still dwell in a biological engine that can't rely on rational thought for survival, and isn't taking any chances.
A
few thousand years of self-awareness and civilization structure isn't
going
to change that.
You're kidding yourself if you think human beings are rational.
Shane
"Spare me the amateur psychology." --Avon
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