Calle wrote:
Shane Little writes:
I don't know about emma, but it appears that the reason why Kathryn left was because of Annie and Leah's totally unprovoked and quite shocking attack on her Christian beliefs.
Don't put words in her mouth. Kathryn had been on this list since the beginning, and she's taken far worse attacks on her beliefs than that. This is what she actually wrote:
# Now it isn't bullies driving me away, but simply the general # snarkiness of far too many people, for far too long.
(Entire post is in http://tezcatlipoca.algonet.se/cgi-bin/getbyid.pl?id=45974 if you want to check for yourself)
I believe you.
That "general snarkiness" most definitely includes you, Shane. Could you *please* drop this debate now, before you manage to empty the list completely?
Well done, Calle. I'm leaving this lyst. You will never hear from me again. Some of you will be pleased. Some of you will say, "thank God he's gone. Things will be so much better now." Others may think, "That's a pity. A lot of what he said was true. I wish I had stood up and said something. Oh well, too late now I suppose."
It is too late. People on this lyst have failed to stand up for too long. And now the battle is over and they've lost.We've all lost. And that is why I am leaving Blake's 7 fandom.
We've lost because we have allowed B7 to be hijacked, and turned into a homogenised hamburger. We have lost because certain very selfish people have no respect for the actors involved, who have supported fandom for over twenty years. These people are being grossly exploited, and none of you care. We have all lost because we have allowed Annie and Leah, two very powerful fans, to bully us into submission. We know what they are like, but we have failed to stand up to them.
And the result? People on this lyst don't talk about B7 anymore, they talk about themselves. They talk about sex. B7 fans have talked about sex for so long now they have mapped it back onto the series. Sex was always a small part of B7. Not any more. All you now see is sex. And a twisted version of sex at that. It's a homophobic kind of sex. It's a kind that demeans gays. And it's only function is to titillate straight women. Women who think that Meegat is a good role model for them to follow. People who have read so much porn that they can now only see relationships in terms of domination and submission.
Slash has become B7, and B7 has been distorted out of shape to make it fit this totally alien interpretation. Everything has its place. Even slash. But B7 fandom has gone the same way as some other fandoms. It has become a show about slash. B7 had a lot of interesting things to say. Not any more. Whatever B7 had to say has been submerged beneath a tide of puerile sexual fantasy.
I am a recent member to this lyst. When I joined I was very disturbed by what I saw. Perhaps people who have been here a long time don't see it anymore, or are trying to ignore what's going on here, because they want to keep the peace. What I saw made me very sad indeed.
Yesterday I read a post about a newbe fan who was sat down in front of the TV and told what they should be seeing. That is appalling. That image demeans all of us. B7 fandom has become the Federation. No, worse than that, it has become George Orwell's 1984. A story about the distortion of reality. Those who control the present, control the past, and so also control the future. During the humiliation and brainwashing of Winston Smith, O'Brian holds up three fingers and tells him he is holding up four. He tells him that the people Winston though existed didn't exist at all, in fact had never existed. He is told that if O'Brian so wished, he could defy gravity and float above the ground. The reason he doesn't? Because he chooses not to! In the end Winston Smith is destroyed. He believes everything O'Brian tells him. He has learned to "love" him and the state he represents.
In these last few weeks I have seen reality turned on its head. "If I perceive something to be true, it must be true." Sorry, you are wrong. It just means you're self-deluded, or worse, just plain mad.
What happens if you challenge this mindset? People sulk, they stamp their feet, they run away, they twist your words. They say, "the characters weren't very realistic anyway," they say, "the programme was silly" they say, "the acting was bad", they say, "it looked cheap." They attack the programme they profess to love, to justify an interpretation which at best is totally without merit, and at worst is totally perverted and demeaning, to the show, to the actors, to the writers, to yourselves.
I don't care how powerful somebody is, or how much they've allegedly done for fandom, or how many of their zines you've bought. If they're hurting actors and belittling the beliefs and sexual identities of fellow fans, not to mention the programme itself, then their behaviour is totally unacceptable, and no amount of cons organised can change that. On Ashton Press' welcoming page, there is a picture of two idealised, well-fed wolves. I wonder what poor old Wendy would have made of that...
Calle, you are welcome to your lyst. If I were you, I'd press a few buttons and wipe the whole rotten thing out.
Shane
"The mad and the very powerful have one thing in common. They twist the facts to fit the theory. That's all very well, until you become one of those facts." -- The Doctor
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"Shane" == Shane Little littles@angelfire.com writes:
Calle, you are welcome to your lyst. If I were you, I'd press a few buttons and wipe the whole rotten thing out.
Lucky thing I'm not you, then.
At this point I'd like to point out a couple of things to those who feel that this list is in some way deficient or not at all what you want it to be:
* The list is what you who post to it make it. No more, no less. Lately it has been a war zone, since heavy posters have been waging war. At other times it has been other things, most of them IMAO more pleasant.
* If you really can't deal with me and/or the people on this list, it is nowadays very easy to start your own list with some free-list provider. You need no knowledge beyond that necessary to operate a web browser, and no resources beyond some free time on your hands.
Calle, thanks for everything.
Now I can breathe again.
Can we spread the word?
"Harriet" == Harriet Monkhouse hflysator@jarriere.demon.co.uk writes:
Can we spread the word?
Sure, although it may be a good idea to wait a day or three to see if Shane is the sort of person who'll send a long, emotional going-away letter and then not go away after all.
"That's a pity. A lot of what he said was true. I
wish I had stood up and said something. Oh well, too late now I suppose."<<
I didn't always agree with what Shane said and how he sometimes expressed himself but these moments were in the minority, for the main, what he said made alot of sense and this farewell post of his is no exception (to my mind) I for one will be sorry to see him go and I am deeply sorry to have read that Kathryn has left as well...pity. Strong headaches have been keeping my stay on the computer short and I have not been coming here because I have been using the limited time at a board that is currently discussing Blake 7 episodes one at a time - I prefer this, I know this list is for varied discussion surrounding Blake 7 and that these discussions can go elsewhere(that's fine) but what Shane said seems to be so true - here, there is more interest on the sexual side and not enough of what is actually Blake's 7. Fun is great - but sex isn't the only fun to be had.
Cheryl.
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