Betty wrote:
... ordinary people wanting to define their own passive consumption of television (something like five hours a day for the average American, I think!) as "normal," even though most people have the feeling, deep down, that there may well be something vaguely wrong with staring passively at the tube like that for large chunks of time. But if you can point to someone whose TV-watching behavior is really unsual, it can make your own habits seem "normal" by comparison, and therefore,somehow, OK. "Yeah, sure, I watch a lot of TV, but at least I'm not like *those* people! They're obsessive!"
This is precisely the attitude I'd like to avoid by emphasising the *positive* aspects of fandom (eg sociability, creativity, active vs passive) rather than comparing it with other pursuits which are supposedly worse.
As with most things it's the *degree* that's important. There's nothing wrong, for example, with liking watching or playing football, but someone who follows say Manchester United round the country, can name their teams and record over the past 20 years, and feels that physical aggression is a warranted response towards the followers of other teams is unlikely to win my approval.
The same could be said for many things.
Tavia wrote:
As with most things it's the *degree* that's important. There's nothing wrong, for example, with liking watching or playing football, but someone who follows say Manchester United round the country, can name their teams and record over the past 20 years, and feels that physical aggression is a warranted response towards the followers of other teams is unlikely to win my approval.
Surely the first two are separable from the second. Having a season ticket and being able to cite your team's record is no better or worse than going to conventions and being able to recite the entire script of Star One. Obviously physical violence is a completely unacceptable. (And supporting Man Utd is, frankly, a bit sad).
The polite and sensible option is to live and let live. These things always seem bizarre on the outside and quite normal to those who like them - whether it be sci-fi, football or whatever.
Stephen.
P.S. Not living in Devon anymore I didn't see a local paper, but I'd be surprised if there wasn't at least one Blake's Heaven headline after we stuffed York at the weekend !
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