NOTE: all quotes are from "The Complete Writer's Guide to Heroes and Heroines." I'm leaving a lot out - most of which applies, some of which doesn't. If you want the latter, well, buy the book. It's interesting. ;-) -- -- -- -- -- -- --

Gan is The Best Friend.

"Everyone needs a best friend, a pal with broad shoulders to cry on, a guy with a sympathetic ear ready to hear about the latest catastrophe. Decent, kind and responsible, the BEST FRIEND is a buddy who can be counted on whether the chips are down or things are looking up."

"He is also very good in a crisis. While others are hysterical, this man's calm, capable presence often soothes the troubled waters. He finds the solution, negotiates the peace and provides the buffer between warring parties. People instinctively trust him to be fair and he never disappoints."

"He tries to avoid hurt feelings or create difficulties, so he tends not to step forward and make a fuss. This proclivity can cause him to be overlooked in love and in the workplace."

Under virtues:

"Stable-Old Faithful has nothing on the BEST Friend. He is consistently dependable and is always there when called for."

"Supportive-Leaning on this man is easy because he will never disappear or waver."

"Tolerant-the BEST FRIEND is not easily offended. He understands that people are individuals and appreciates their differences."

Under flaws:

"Unassertive-The BEST FRIEND is accustomed to letting others go first. It is hard for him to step forward, even when he knows he should."

Susan Beth (susanbeth33@mindspring.com)