In a message dated 2/23/01 5:20:07 PM Eastern Standard Time, sweigman@world.std.com writes:
<< In following the h/c/S&M discussion, I've encountered the following 3 expressions: "gay-dar", "S&M-dar", "lesbian-dar." I know what gay, lesbian and S&M mean--but what, pray tell, is "dar"? >>
Some folks claim (either humorously or otherwise) that they can detect whether or not an individual is gay. They refer to this ability as their "gay-dar", short for gay-radar. By extension, S&M-dar would be short for S&M radar and lesbian-dar short for lesbian radar. The last two are new to me, but logical. Now excuse me...my breakfast-dar just went off.
Leah