13 Mar
2001
13 Mar
'01
11:12 p.m.
Tavia wrote:
Mistral wrote:
Ideal to whom? I find the Lyst a welcome refuge from the fluff and chat of my other groups.
and:
Er. One person's fun and friendly is another person's fluffy and emotionally invasive.
Well, I've just done the late-at-night equivalent of walk round the block and I still think this is an incredibly hurtful thing to say.
I'm very sorry, Tavia, I was trying very hard _not_ to hurt you. Please forgive me. What I was trying to not be hurtful in saying, is that I found your original comments somewhat hurtful myself. I feel safe on the Lyst. If it suddenly goes all warm and fuzzy, I won't. Why should all lists have to appeal to everybody? There are lots of warm, fuzzy lists.
Mistral
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