In a message dated 3/27/01 1:27:54 AM Eastern Standard Time,
rilliara(a)juno.com writes:
<< And then there's all that "Give me liberty or give me death" stuff that I
couldn't help absorbing as a kid (hey, it was in the air). The feeling
that those things need to be said. >>
The concept of empathy really seems to be eluding some members of this list.
I don't know how I can make it any plainer than I already have. A number of
people certainly didn't like it when I freely expressed *my* opinion of
*their* religion... even though it is my true opinion and I meant no personal
attack on them on at all. Hey, I felt it "needed to be said" because it's the
way I feel. If it's okay for others to attack *my* beliefs and traditions and
lifestyle openly on the list, why do they feel that they are immune from
hearing my thoughts on *their* beliefs and traditions and lifestyle in
return? You can say anything you darn well please and I'll stand up for your
"right" to do so. But please don't act all put out and surprised when you
receive an answer IN KIND. I believe in treating people the way they have
asked me to treat them. And I don't believe in letting people insult my way
of life with impunity. I don't have to justify my existence to anyone and I
don't have to defend my way of life. But if people here are going to freely
attack an entire group of people I'll be darned if I'm just going to sit back
and let them do it without saying anything.
Some folks said that *they* weren't offended by Kathryn's original post
because she said it all so "politely". So, I went back and reread the post
(reproduced below) just to see if I was completely out of line. Nope. I'm
just as offended at 2nd and 3rd readings. I don't think it's polite at all to
blithely inform a large list of Blakes 7 fans that adultery (of Avon and
Anna) isn't half so bothersome as gay sex because, of course, gay sex is
soooo much more sinful.
Annie
Kathryn said (in 2 separate posts):
If characters I respect and like are made by the author to do something
very wrong, and it is treated as something right, then I hate what the
author has done to the characters. It's character assassination at the
least. (*)
To refine: I find slash stories more upsetting than hetsmut
because of the moral issue, even though I don't like reading either one;
for me, het sex out of wedlock is, while not good, not half as sinful
as gay sex. (Particularly if the het sex is monogamous; at least
they're being faithful...) So it upsets me to see characters I admire
suddenly having gay sex. That's where my compass is set, and if that
upsets anyone, then go ahead and call me insulting names if it makes you
feel better.