> I'm sorry that it's taken me so long to say something. I'm especially sorry
> because I very much enjoy Penny and she's not posted a single thing to the
> lyst since then. Maybe because she was hurt by the words. Not everyone
> complains in public when they've been hurt. Or maybe because she was hurt
> that no spoke up in her defense. I hope she's still here to read this.
>
> Carol Mc
I was upset by the post Carol Mc quoted from Neil, but said nothing
specific about it because I was upset by a lot of what was going on at
about the same time, and because Neil's posts suggest he wouldn't care
if I had said anything. He takes pride in being obstreporous sometimes.
I didn't think Penny might interpret silence as a support for him, as I
have frequently praised her.
One of the main reasons I've been so upset about the list arguements
lately is that people who I had been in the habit of respecting, such as
Neil, said things to other people I found distressing. I'd rather put up
with trolls than a things getting nasty between people I know.
I also want to thank everyone for trying to calm things down-- it's been
a lot better the last few days. As you can see, I'm willing to open my
mouth again.